Men Listen Up: I Don’t Have to Give You A Reason

Okay, why do men always ask you why you aren’t interested in them, don’t want to go out with them or don’t want to see them again if you did go out with them? Men, it may sound harsh but I don’t have to give you a reason and I won’t. Look, I feel that it’s a woman’s right to say no and that woman doesn’t have to be subjected to your endless, questions as to why.

" But I don’t understand if we hit it off…"

" Why? What did I do? Tell me and I won’t do it again, baby…"

" Is it me? "

" Come on. I don’t understand why you don’t want to go out with me. "

" How come you don’t want to go out again? I thought we had a good time. "

" Why didn’t you ever call me? "

" Why am I not your type? What’s wrong with me? "

" Is it someone else? "

Blah…blah…blah…blah…

Men don’t understand what it is like to be a woman. We not only have to deal with one fool but thousands okay? So when we reject you, we aren’t going to sit down and write a list as to why. I am tired of getting a thousand questions as to why I don’t want to hook up with some guy. I’m trying to spare you okay? I could tell you what I really think but I’m trying to be nice by just saying, " I’m not interested. " Let me move on with that. Don’t dig the hole deeper by bugging me and asking me why I don’t want to be with you. Women have that right to not tell you why!

I think most men find themselves rejected because some of them are terribly pushy. I don’t know why, but I seem to attract pushy, over-eager men who seem to be on the verge of obsession. I don’t like to be pushed and bullied into being with someone. If I say no, it’s no. I have that right. I don’t have to be with you just because you want me. And I don’t owe you a damn thing. You think I would DARE ask a man why he didn’t want me? Hell no! I’d say, " Okay, bye. " That’s the way I am. If a man is secure in himself he can take a hint but now I find that these days when you say no to someone you practically need a darn restraining order for him to get the hint. Instead of running after me why don’t you go and find someone who might want you? Persistence isn’t the key with something like this, fellows. You look downright desperate and pathetic if you keep going after a woman who says no.

NO ONE OWES YOU A REASON. GET A LIFE AND MOVE ON.

Just wanted to put my 2 cents on this because I am sick of getting the third degree if I don't want someone. Just because someone is available doesn’t mean they want you. If you’re not my type I don’t look at you, plain and simple. And don’t try to " change " to be my type because that’s not anything real. I can see through that a mile away. I still won’t want you because that’s not genuine. We all have our preferences and a man begging won’t change my mind. I am sure others are sick of it too. People are trying to be nice when they don’t actually tell you the truth. You keep asking and you may find out something that you didn’t want to hear. Accept that the person is being honest and let it go. Please, get a hint, clue and some self-respect and stop begging. It’s not a quality that most women find attractive.

Ciao!

The picture is Aaliyah. Rest in Peace Baby girl. Damn that girl had style.