Erections: Can They or Can't They Be Controlled?

Put your tongue back into your mouth this is a genuine post. I really want to know. I've heard so many different opinions. Can they or can't they be controlled by men? Some men say that they can control their erections no matter what. Others say sometimes it's just natural what happens and sometimes it can be quite embarrassing. I remember in high school when all a girl had to do was walk in front of or stand next to a guy and he'd pop a boner (what us 90's teens say), just from being close to a girl. We all know that it's difficult for boys to control it at that age. Of course we all know it's because of puberty and the fact that they are just learning about their bodies. So how could they control it?

But can MEN always control them? What brought on this topic was when I watched a movie with a very intense sex scene this evening. Through the years, I'd watch sex scenes in movies and sometimes the kissing is so intense you just know the guy has to have had a…you know right? I mean haven't you seen a movie and you go, " They look like they're kissing for real! Like they're really into it! " I know you have. Mom says actors' control themselves during those times. Well mom is way more experienced than I am so I believe she's somewhat correct. But she's still not a man so it leaves a question in my mind.

When actors are doing those sex scenes, kissing and touching, are they always able to control it? I know actors go through a lot of exercises when they are getting ready for a scene so I suppose maybe they have a mental exercise actors use to contain their arousal? I'm just guessing of course. I often wondered if they wear something. When they're doing a love scene and half of their body is under the covers, are they perhaps wearing some special designed drawers that stops their little or large (if you prefer), soldiers from saluting? I don't mean to be vulgar or anything and don't take it that way but I am really curious. I want some men to share some light on the subject. CAN YOU CONTROL IT?

You know I think there is nothing more flattering than when a guy would get a boner when I sat next to him at school. The other girls would go, " Ewe! " and run off. But hey that's a compliment I believe! If you make a man excited just by sitting beside him then you got it going on. I know some men only have to hear a woman's voice (my voice is very tiny and men seem to find it cute by the way) and they spring up. Others just see a good looking woman or either a woman wearing something that triggers his senses and he goes, " Boing! ". Well that's life isn't it?

And what causes a lot of men to get erections in public? You know you've seen men somewhere and you do a double take and you swear you see a…in his pants. Then you look again only to confirm it. Most women laugh. Others just turn their heads, embarrassed. But do you ever wonder what made it get there? I do. What's the guy thinking about when he's in public and he's aroused? Does it just happen? Can he or can he not control it? Some guys say men can. Others say sometimes…no way. I just want to know. When it came to movies, it was the first question that popped in my mind. Okay, no pun intended. But can it be controlled?

Comments? And please keep them respectable. We're not on the street here. Say your peace with some manners and refrain from using vulgar language. I'm a lady. And also, respect my blog visitors. Some people allow all kinds of things on their blog. I don't. So " Respect my house! ", as Martin would say.

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